- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2011
So stressed and worried now! Things are going bad, I feel like crying and I can’t because I’m at work. (read here for my previous post http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/moh-issues-3)
I sent her a text saying I felt like I was losing her friendship over what happened, I asked her if maybe I was just over reacting or if it was true. She said hopefully with time and after your wedding things will be better. I said we’ve have been in worse arguments than this, what makes this incident worse. And how would the wedding being over make things different, was I being a bridezilla or going crazy?
I haven’t heard back on the last 2 questions. We have been friends for 20 years! We have been in worse fights, I ignored her for almost a year(twice!) when dating certain guys. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to lose her friendship, but I don’t know if I can have her as Maid/Matron of Honor if she feels this way. I think things would be awkward and not planned well, cuz she’s not sure of our friendship right now.
I don’t know if I should ask her if she wants to still be in the wedding or if she wants to be in it at all. I do not want to have drama and awkwardness on my wedding day.
I’m at a loss, so I’m eating ice cream when I should be eating carrots. HELP!! Any advice?