(Closed) MOH issues…would you be hurt?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I’m kinda starting to wonder myself if I shouldn’t have picked somebody else, but that’s mostly because I have a MAN of honor and I don’t think Fiance really wants him to help me get ready lol

Post # 4
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1573 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

My Maid/Matron of Honor is in Florida too and I’m in CA.  I kinda of feel that too.  I had originally wanted to pick our other friend to be my Maid/Matron of Honor ’cause she lived closer to me but I didn’t.  My Maid/Matron of Honor in Florida and I had talked a long time ago in college and had said that since we didn’t have sisters that we’d be each other’s Maid/Matron of Honor.  when she got married in January, she asked me to be her Maid/Matron of Honor so I kept my word and picked her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor.  I am excited that she’s my Maid/Matron of Honor but like you said we’re very limited on what we can do together.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

well… is she at least excited about the wedding? do you talk to her about it? does she ask questions? it’s not really her fault that she can’t afford to come for these things, and i don’t think it’s fair to really judge how good of a moh she’ll be until after the wedding (unless she has no interest now). she might come to your wedding and do some amazing things for you and than you’ll think thank god i chose her! my moh is out of state too, but she’s been able to fly in or fly me out for important events. we also talk regularly about the wedding and she’s always asking questions about where she needs to be when, what she needs to do, etc, which helps me to know that i won’t need to stress on wedding day because she’ll have things taken care of. she asked me the other day what restaurants are around the hotel so she will be able to pick up lunch for us because it’s important that i’m fed. she even called me one day from anthropologie after she bought hair clips/headbands for her and the bridesmaids and a hair flower for me! so it is possible to do nice things from afar.

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