- 9 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
For my wedding my older sister keeps insisting on calling herself the Maid/Matron of Honor even though Fiance and I decided we weren’t going to use the Maid/Matron of Honor and Best Man labels at all. She is walking down the aisle first, and standing closest to me at the alter but it still doesn’t seem to be enough for her. She already tried to have a different color and style of dress even though I told her I didn’t want that.
Regardless, she has hardly played a role in the wedding at all. She has 3 children so she hasn’t been too available, and she doesn’t seem too interested in helping with anything. Now it’s time to work on the programs, getting ready shirts, and all the little extras and I don’t want to label her as the Maid/Matron of Honor, but I don’t want her to get mad over “just being a bridesmaid”. What should I do?