(Closed) MOH lives abroad. Should I make my local bridesmaid co-MOH?

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

Ultimately, if you think it’s easier just to have two Maid/Matron of Honor, just do it.  When I see a wedding that has one Bridesmaid or Best Man and one Maid/Matron of Honor, I kind of feel bad for the Bridesmaid or Best Man.  Like, "Hi, I came in second."  If you have more Bms (3+) and one is picked as Maid/Matron of Honor, that seems to feel a bit differently.  Just my own thoughts.

Post # 4
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410 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

My Maid/Matron of Honor lives in london for part of the year and then 6 hours from me the rest for school.  She is my only attendant, but even if she werent, she would be my Maid/Matron of Honor.  Even though she cant get to my wedding site until a couple days before the wedding she is there for me online as much as she can be.  We email eachother a lot and she is there emotionally for me which is almost more importan than having he rphysically there to do the DIY stuff.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I am co-MOH in my best friend’s wedding. She wanted her sister to be Maid/Matron of Honor but her sister is super busy with school and doesn’t have as much time to commit.  Also in a lot of ways I know this friend’s tastes better than her sister.  Its been great so far.  Her sister and I have really become close friends.  (I even asked her sister to sing at my own wedding.)  You need a lot of help planning a wedding and having 2 people that committed to you can’t hurt. 

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