(Closed) MOH Nightmare Update!

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3165 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@noaliaqui: your sister is bananas. i don’t know why she’s being insane, but it’ll be okay! are you guys catholic? i don’t think convalidations usually have a big wedding-type atmosphere so don’t feel like her crazy antics in any way are going to take away from the magic of your wedding. i wouldn’t talk to her about it again. this is in a week, right? i’d be pissed if i were you, no doubt, and probably tell her that it’s such short notice and i’ve got a meeting with the caterer/photog/family cat/tv that can’t be moved since it’s so close to the wedding and not go because she seems to just want attention.

Post # 4
5091 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Unfortunately, I think your Maid/Matron of Honor is just insane, and now that she’s moved it once, I’m not sure you’re going to get anything better.  I would probably drop the issue.  It still sucks, but it’s better than it was.  I’m truly sorry you’re dealing with her drama.  *hugs*

Post # 6
491 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Don’t back down! She’s trying to steal your thunder and it’s unacceptable! She has been married for five years, and twice for that matter! You’ve been planning this for months I’m sure, and it would just be such a shame to let her ruin your special day.

On the other hand.. if you don’t think it’s worth the headache you could just let her do it. Most likely, she is going to look ridiculous to everyone else too..

Post # 8
649 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Let her do it, get it over with and then you can at least have it behind you so you don’t have to worry about it anymore.  Like PP said, she is likely going to look ridiculous in everyone elses eyes. Then everyone can move forward to your lovely day!

Post # 9
2260 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2020

First of all, Im glad you talked to her and she did at least attempt to do right by moving it to the week before. From what you told us though, I think thats the best that you can get from her.

Your church is still going to be a magical and special part of your wedding day regardless. I don’t want to add more for you to do, but maybe you can dress up the pews a bit so that way they still look a bit different from your MOH/sister’s. Also the church will be filled with much more people who love and care about you and your Fiance, and honestly thats going to be your biggest focus the day of, not the fact your sister was there just a week before.

Post # 10
17 posts
  • Wedding: November 2012

Is it possible for you to ask her to step down as your maid of honor and pick someone else?  I think you want a Maid/Matron of Honor who has your back and has your best interests at heart, it seems like your Maid/Matron of Honor is more concerned with herself.

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