- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 1969
I am getting married next weekend and my Maid/Matron of Honor has been my best friend for 7 years. Her and her boyfriend broke up 3 months ago and since then she complains to me when she sees people getting engaged on facebook, okay I understand but you are my Maid/Matron of Honor, complain about marriage to someone one. She never wants to talk about my wedding with me or help me plan anything. Since she doesn’t have a lot of money and I only have a Maid/Matron of Honor and 1 Bridesmaid or Best Man I bought their dresses for them. I am also paying for their hair and their makeup. She went out and spent $50 last weekend on alcohol (when she always complain about being broke) and now she can’t pay $20 for my bachelorette party (which had to be thrown by my Bridesmaid or Best Man because my Maid/Matron of Honor wouldn’t throw one for me). I am trying to be understanding, I realize she is not in the best place, but shouldn’t she still act happy for me, and act like she wants to be a part of my wedding? Or am I just being selfish?
I just need some advice/support