MoH, pickings are slim

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

I feel like this is one of those non issues thats not even worth a dash of concern. Ditch the Maid/Matron of Honor. Problem solved.

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Yeah, Maid/Matron of Honor isn’t necessary. If there’s no one who you automatically know should be it, don’t have one. 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

I vote no Maid/Matron of Honor. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

You don’t need an MoH.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - Farm

You don’t need a Maid/Matron of Honor. It’ll just create a headache that you don’t want. I would ditch the idea of having a Maid/Matron of Honor and just make everyone bridemaids. That’s what I’m doing and I only have 4 and 3 of them are my sisters.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

Agree with all the PPs – Maid/Matron of Honor is not a requirement!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

As mentioned above, you don’t need an MOH! So not picking anyone is certainly an option.

Some one I know started off with all bridesmaids and then promoted a girl to Maid/Matron of Honor because she got extra close with this girl in the process. That method worked out well for her. You could always do that later on if for some reason you regret not giving someone the title of Maid/Matron of Honor

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper

Skip the Maid/Matron of Honor. 

Post # 11
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Worker bee

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whovianlife :  Agree with having no Maid/Matron of Honor. I think a lot of times the upset re the Maid/Matron of Honor title only comes when someone is chosen over someone else who feels like they should be it. If no one gets it, there’s (hopefully) really nothing for her to be upset about.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

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whovianlife :  no Maid/Matron of Honor. and i wouldn’t even make Michelle a bridesmaid…tbh, it doesn’t sound like you’re actually friends.

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

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whovianlife :  If you’re going to have them as your bridesmaid and you are currently super close to one of them, make her your Maid/Matron of Honor, it doesn’t matter if it’s only been 2-3 years. Who is the one that is most responsible and the best listener. Who do you enjoy talking about your wedding planning the most to?

Pick her.

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Busy bee

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