(Closed) MOH pregnant with a twist!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@icetea:  There is nothing to be harsh about…I understand that you are nervous about this entire situation as I would have been. Can you call her and come to a compromise about possibly changing her if she doesn’t make a solid decision at a specific deadline. Let her know ur fears be honest, she cant be upset with you for that.

If she crosses the deadline or is unable o attend then u can both agree to have a replacement (someone who is ok with being a replacement and who is more dependable)

It’s your day of course u wont want ur Maid/Matron of Honor M.I.A.


Post # 4
1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Aw man, I feel so bad for you! I’d be majorly bummed if there was a chance my Maid/Matron of Honor couldn’t be at my wedding. 🙁

All I can say is to try to stay positive. She’s telling you she’ll be there so try to trust that. If worse comes to worst, and she can’t come, she can always Skype in to see you get married. (A friend of mine did that from Armenia where she was in the Peace Corp for another friend’s wedding and she was so glad for the opportunity.)

Hang in there!

Post # 6
7651 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Have her give you a definite yes or no that she can make it and just tell her that you just want to make sure this situation is comfortable for both of you. If she gives you a yes, it’s ok answer, accept it. Don’t keep on and on about it wondering. Then you will just go crazy over nothing. You have bigger things to worry about.

So ask her, get the answer, and let it be what it will be. Your wedding will be perfect regardless…it’s easy for us married bees to say that. I never believed it until it actually happened to me, but it does work out. 🙂 

Post # 7
1043 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m so sorry.  🙁  I’m happy that your friend is able to live with her Boyfriend or Best Friend in France.  But the truth is, there are certain Maid/Matron of Honor duties that she won’t be able to successfully do being so far away (help with the bridal shower and bachelorette party, help with planning, etc.).  If you are concerned about these things, maybe gently tell her that you hope she can be a part of your wedding still, but with all the duties you’ll need help with, it would be easier on both of you if you found someone closer to home.  

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