(Closed) MOH problem… I need advice!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Soon2beMrs.Ka: You/or maybe it’s your fiance, are being way to hard on her. I see it as a careless mistake.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Well she definitely can’t be your Maid/Matron of Honor and not be there on your wedding day, but demoting seems harsh. I guess you should wait to see if they change the date.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Seriously?? Seriously? You’d demote her for making a simple mistake?

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Soon2beMrs.Ka: I see it as a mistake and say do what you feel is best.

 

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I wouldn’t demote her if you want to keep the friendship…my best friend (who is my MOH) was a Maid/Matron of Honor in another of our friend’s wedding and was demoted b/c the other bride was very demanding and with her work schedule, my friend coulnd’t be with her every weekend like she expected – so she demoted her and it ruined their friendship…they havent talked since the wedding…that was 4 years ago.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

It was a mistake! It happens, quite easily. especially when getting caught up in her brother’s wedding.  Definitely not a reason to demote her!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

neither of these are her events. she can’t help that 2 people close to her want to get married on the same weekend… demoting her would be pretty lame! glad you aren’t leaning that way…

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