- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
So lets see f I can make a long story short…. when deciding who to have as my Maid/Matron of Honor originally, I was torn between a lifetime best friend from the age of 10 who lives 7 hours away, or a best friend 2 hours away that I met freshman year of high school, kinda drifted apart from after high school (grudated in 2007), but still was the kinda friend who I knew would be there for me day or night at the drop of a hat… no matter how long its been since we talked… I went with my life long friend because the plan from the age of 12 has been to be each other MOHs.
Well, throughout wedding planning… she has not done ONE thing to help… not one. didnt come to my bridal shower, or bachelorette party.. I am getting married in 33 days… and just recently found out all these horrible horrible things she has said about my dress being ugly, the bridesmaids dresses being hideous, not wanting to drive here for the wedding, and also that she would rather have a girl she has just recently met 5 months ago be in her wedding party, than me. She doesnt know I know this all though, and dont want to have the drama and be stressed even more 33 days before my wedding….. My point here though is……… can I add a MOH? Can I ask my other best friend who has been here for me this whole wedding planning process to also be a Maid/Matron of Honor, and have 2 MOHs? & how would I explain that to the first girl? I Hate wedding stuff. im so over it all. it brings out the bad in people.. including me. wow