(Closed) MOH problems

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
75 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 1993

Just buy her a $50 dress and tell her to STFU…. maybe in slightly nicer words. She’s being a baby.

Post # 4
1129 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Well… I don’t think she is being a great made of honor, but I wouldn’t make a big deal about it. Not because I don’t think what she is doing is OK (not OK at all) but to avoid any problems between you two. 

Just her pick whatever dress she likes on your terms (one you approve for your bridal party) and let her do whatever she wants with it…

Don’t let her being a pain in the butt ruin your amazing day :D!
Cheer up! 

Post # 5
45652 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You can choose to engage in her problem making, or choose not to-your choice.

Let her pick the dress she wants to wear as long as she agrees to your terms-color, fabric etc.

If she wears the dress in Iowa will it really make any long term difference to your wedding?? Your sister is clearly not prepared to “put out’ for your wedding. I would simply carry on without her as much as you can.

Post # 6
241 posts
Helper bee

@gingerkid:  tell her to buy and return and stop being a baby lol

Post # 7
7656 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

If all you did was set a color, then what is she being a cry-baby for? She can spend 5 bucks or 500. You didn’t put a minimum on it. Why doesn’t she visit a thrift store if she doesn’t want to spend a bunch?

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