(Closed) MOH problems

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Wow…she’s not even going to show up? That’s a bit crazy. It kind of sounds like you need a new Maid/Matron of Honor. Frown

Post # 4
3709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

It may be time for you to find a new Maid/Matron of Honor. My sister is getting married on 9/18 and her best friend is just not into weddings. My sister still made her a Bridesmaid or Best Man and that seems to be working out. She bought her dress and she contributed to the bridal shower and will be there at the wedding. That is the extent of her involvement. The BMs have been involved as much or as little as they want to be and I think that’s OK.

If you have specific expectations of your BFF, have a sit down conversation with her and let her know what they are. Give her the option to back out if she doesn’t think that she can handle them. Do stress that your day wouldn’t be the same without her there…and she would be welcomed as a guest if she chooses not to be in the bridal party.

Post # 5
552 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Ugh that stinks…yeah see if another Bridesmaid or Best Man can see what is up w/ her.  That’s what I would do I guess. 

Post # 6
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Ouch, yeah that’s not right.  It sounds as if something else is going on there.  IF it’s just jealousy, then you need to move on, that’s not a real friend, and you need a better Maid/Matron of Honor than that!!!  She should suck up her own issues and be happy for you.  I think it’s a good idea to get your friend to talk to her because you might not get the real story if u confront her yourself.

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