(Closed) MOH problems…advice needed please.

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I say keep your sister as Maid/Matron of Honor and add the Matron of Honor.

Not the same situation but I only had my sister as Maid/Matron of Honor. Then after some planning and stuff and trying to put hte order together for the ceremony, I realized I wanted my BFF to be right there next to my sister…because she IS my BFF and she deserved that spot! So I made her Maid/Matron of Honor too!

Post # 4
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817 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Also want to add that if you do this, you will probably just have to accept that your sister won’t be doing a lot of hte planning. Make sure your friend/MOH understands this whole thing, too so she doesn’t feel slighted.

Post # 5
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4824 posts
Honey bee

This is tough because the problem isnt really should she by your Maid/Matron of Honor, but what, if anything you should do about your sister.

First thing is first, I would contact the landlord and ask her to change the name on the lease.

Second, I would tell my sister that I can not support her behaviors (Stealing and lieing) and that you love her and she is still your sister, but you can’t trust her to rely on her to by your Maid/Matron of Honor.

Third, do not bail your sister out of any problems. That only serves to enable her.

 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

The point at which she’s wrecking your credit rating is the point at which she loses wedding privileges. Also, cosigning privileges. Don’t do her any more financial favors–she’ll screw you over and she won’t learn a thing.

Some people don’t learn until they hit bottom.

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