Post # 1
Hi girls so I need your input,due to family issues my then Maid/Matron of Honor obviously isn’t coming out in the wedding or even attending so one of my close friends offered to replace her and I was cool about it,but she txt me last nite saying she was sorry but can’t anymore due to not having money which is totally understandible .I told her its ok I’m not mad about that but my question is does it look bad not having a MOH??? I’m ok with the idea of not having one I have 5 bridesmaid already so there’s no one I trust or that im close with.will it look funny ?? My Fiance isn’t having a best man either since his brother pulled out as well because of his wife,my ex Maid/Matron of Honor . Need your opinions:)
Post # 3
If there is no best man, its okay not to have a Maid/Matron of Honor, but someone will need to help you with your train and hold bouquet and what not so have one of your Bridesmaid or Best Man step in for Maid/Matron of Honor duties
Post # 4
There is no rule in the book that says you need a Maid/Matron of Honor. Especially with your FH not having a Bridesmaid or Best Man, then I think that you would be fine not having one. I am sorry your friends are unable to be there for you, but you are a good friend being so understanding.
Post # 5
Geez…his brother cant even be there?
You will need to have people selected to sign the marriage certificate and help wiht your flowers and dress.
Sorry to hear of all these issues!
Post # 6
Ya all this planning has gotten so crazy and Fiance family are finally showing their true colors:/ but I’m glad you guys reassured me that not having a Maid/Matron of Honor isn’t going to look bad,my sister is one of my bridesmaid and since she got her dress already couldn’t do it but she said she will help me with my bouquet and dress bustle ,I will also have a wedding cordinator that day so that totally makes me feel better:) thank you girls for your input:) hugs to you all from me<3