(Closed) MOH **rant** are you kidding me?! Advice?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh man.  Have you seen “Bridesmaids”?

It sounds like she’s insecure about the other bridesmaid taking over her role.  Has she been taking the lead in things like planning the bachelorette party and bridal shower?

Try to get her another time to talk to her about it.  Make sure it’s just the 2 of you, without the 13 year old cousin there as a buffer!  Assure her that the other bridesmaid is just a very organized person and not trying to usurp her.

Post # 5
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311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My original Maid/Matron of Honor was the same way.  Anytime a Bridesmaid or Best Man tried to ask her something or see if she was going to plan anything, they got completely ignored.  Then, she got mad at me because my BM’s were stressing me out because she wasn’t responding to them.  And just like yours, she only cared about her stuff, didn’t give a hoot about anything that even remotely had to do with me, my life, or the wedding.

It sounds like she is trying to avoid the situation, so she knows that she offended you but doesn’t want to talk about it or apologize.  Don’t let her avoid it.  Let her know how you feel.  Good luck. 

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