(Closed) MOH selected and ordered her dress without me!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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@julies1949:  My thoughts exactly!

 

Post # 20
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@hisbridekimberly:  whew!   so not a good look. That dress doesn’t work for anyone over a size 0.

I wonder what made her think this was a good look for her? Is there any chance she is kidding?

 

 

 

 

Post # 21
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

oh no.

 

is there a chance this is a joke?

 

I’m with you here- this is not good.  Tell her no, this isn’t going to work with your wedding theme/style.

Post # 22
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I agree on the horrible part. 

Let her know that dress doesn’t go with your theme or style of the day and while you want her to feel and look her best you also want a cohesive look. 

Post # 23
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

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@hisbridekimberly:  Thatis strange she would order without asking you! It is not the nicest dress- if you really don’t like it, I would say something! Hopefully she just misunderstood something and will happily cancel!

Post # 24
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Wow. I have to say that dress reminds me of a meatball. I would be honest and tell her you are upset and can she please cancel. Did she order it in your wedding color or just a random?

Post # 25
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

That….is an abomination.  

Post # 26
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Oh dear…

 

Post # 27
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Unless the theme of your wedding is ‘Captain Caveman’ she should probably choose something else Tongue Out

Post # 28
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

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@hisbridekimberly:  Wow…I thought you were being a little too controlling until I saw this pic…that is so, so terrible.

Talk to her about it.  Tell her that it’s not the kind of thing you had in mind and ask her to cancel the order.  If she throws a fit over it you’ll have to decide if you care more about your friendship or the look. 

Such a weird situation.

 

Post # 29
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

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@secretbee33:  +1 to the meatball comment. 

Post # 30
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

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@hisbridekimberly:  oh deary, deary me.  That dress is just… Yeah, I would 100% be saying no way and getting her to return it and go shopping together.

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