(Closed) MOH that stepped down, I would still like to be a guest, is that silly?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
516 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I don’t think it’s silly. I didn’t read your other post, but I think both of you would regret ending a friendship that quickly that was once strong enough that it made you ask her to be your Maid/Matron of Honor. If you don’t invite her to still come to the wedding, I highly doubt there will be any friendship left. It is a major part of your life and it would be pretty awkward to be friends with her if she wasn’t encouraged to come. This is one of those things that just gets worse as time goes by and you both grow further apart. You don’t want to look back on it 20 years from now having not tried to repair the friendship. Call her! 🙂 and good luck! This may even make your friendship stronger someday.

Post # 4
585 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@peachykd:  def not! she was ur friend for a reason. i lost one of my best friends after one of our best friends died. she lied to her boyfriend about something that it wasn’t okay to lie about and she lost all of us ( her best friends) b.c we couldn’t look past that and there isn’t a day that goes by that i don;t regret it and wish she was going to be at my wedding! she refuses to talk to any of us and its really sad. i would say don’t lose a friendship over this you will regret it if you do. shes ur friend you want her there perfectly normal! 

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