(Closed) MOH Troubles…

posted 12 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
11 posts
  • Wedding: September 2020

if you never asked her, don’t worry so much.  She’s obviously not interested, has other priorities, and isn’t making your life any easier (like a good Maid/Matron of Honor should).  I would either ignore her (she’s apparently trying to bow out anyways), or if you want a confrontation, just say something like "I appreciated your help when I got engaged. I just wanted to thank you again, and let you know that I understand you have a lot on your plate, and other priorities right now, so I won’t bother you for any more help,etc"

Post # 4
22 posts

Miss shortcake’s wording for how to tie up the relationship is awesome. 


I would say though that if you kind of mentioned her being your Maid/Matron of Honor, and then never followed thru with actually asking her, her attitude may be because she is hurt that you didn’t.  Either way, a true friend would have said something and your Maid/Matron of Honor should be someone who will always be in your life. Send the note Miss Shortcake suggested and re-evaluate your wedding party choices. Maybe you can rebuild your friendship outside of the wedding.



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