- 12 years ago
- Wedding: October 2008
I work with a girl that has helped me out with the wedding quite a bit so far. I have only known her about a year and half and we were pretty good friends for a while there. I had kind of dubbed her Maid/Matron of Honor but never officially asked her, she just fell into the roll which was fine for a while. Since then she has been promoted to a new position, and we don’t talk hardly ever anymore. Everytime I do try and talk to her she gives me such an attitude and has alot of negative energy which is hard to deal with. She wrote me an email one day (after I had asked her to go to a bridal fair with me) saying her husband was upset because I am taking time away from their weekends together. She is a really great person and I am sure if things were the way they used to be she would do a great job, but, ever since she started giving me attitude, I am doubting my decision and am thinking she is not the right person for the job. I have not even told her I got my wedding dress in!! I am not sure how to tell her she is not my Maid/Matron of Honor anymore, without causing serious problems. My wedding is in less then 9 months and I really need to make a decision soon!! HELP???!!!!