Post # 1
Fiance and had decided we weren’t going to do +1’s for our single friends, only if they were engaged or living together. Our wedding is far away, so our wedding party is going to be renting a house nearby. Well my Maid/Matron of Honor assumed that some of our girlfriends’ boyfriends would be invited. She sent out an email to all of them and said lets rent a house for the 8 of us (4 girls and their guys.)
Should I address this with her? Should I just add the guys? I don’t want to come of as a Bridezilla.
Post # 3
Oooh that’s sticky. I would probably talk to her and let her know you weren’t doing the +1 thing and then let her correct the situation.
Our rule for +1 is that if the person we’re inviting is in a serious relationship at the time of the invitations going out and we’ve met that person, they will be included. Otherwise no “and guest”.
Post # 4
- Wedding: July 2010 - Catholic Ceremony, Cultural Hall Reception
Well, whether you decide to invite the +1’s that your Maid/Matron of Honor invited or not, you should talk about this with her, so that she doesn’t invite more people!
Is it just one extra person? If all 4 +1’s are not invited, they can probably stay at the rented house and hang out together. If it’s just one person, I would let him come. There’s no point in making him feel left out.