(Closed) MOH Vent!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

OMG, I hope this doesn’t happen to me. I’ve posted a few things about my friend being really busy and I wanted to ask her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor but I’m not sure if she will have time to fit in what is expected of her. She is also very flaky.

When you asked her to be your Maid/Matron of Honor did you ask if she would be able to fit things wedding related into her schedule? She might not have even thought about that. Like “YES YES YES I’d love to be in your wedding as the MOH” but really did she think about whether or not she could handle the responsibility?? I am going to ask that question for my Maid/Matron of Honor because having been in a wedding recently, I know there are times when I rather not do wedding related stuff, but that’s what you have to do for your friend and the position you’re in. I think people (BM’s MOH’s) don’t understand where us brides are coming from until they start planning their own weddings. If she has already been married then she should understand! If not, then that’s probably why.

Maybe she also feels like all you do for the last year is talk about everything and anything wedding related. It’s fun to do that if you’re talking to us bees because all of us are planning weddings, but if your friends are not at that part in their lives, maybe they feel like this is alllllll you think about.

Try calling/texting her to see if she wants to go out for a drink or see a movie. Anything not wedding related. Maybe she will come around. I hope this gets better for you, as you said your wedding is 5 weeks from now!! Good luck!

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