(Closed) MOH was kicked out/resigned…Not Sure What To Do

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

You are certainly not in the wrong. Hopefully she will come around! Don’t feel bad though, you did nothing wrong.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I don’t think you’re wrong at all.  And I think eventually she will realize this as well.  Is she married?  If she hasn’t had her own wedding yet, it may not hit her until she does.  I think she sounds incredibly selfish & rude.  You shouldn’t feel bad at all.  Eventually she’ll miss you and feel bad, because I can’t imagine that many other people enjoy putting up with her.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t have much advice, but I want you to know that I’m truly sorry you’re going through this!  Some people fail to realize when they make everything about them, and it sounds like she is one of them.  I don’t think you’re in the wrong.  Best wishes, and keep your chin up!

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Sounds like the end of a relationship that was on its way out anyway. So glad I didn’t have a wedding party for this reason!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m so sad for your situation. I have to say, I’d buy the ugliest $200 dress on a credit card if that’s what my best friend wanted. I think you need to have serious conversation, face-to-face with her to find out what the real problem is. If it turns out she’s a bad friend who could care less about your wedding, bye-bye.

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Your story is eerily familiar: a good friend of mine recently had to ask her maid of honor to step down due to her being a bully and a diva about everything from the dress to the shoes to the invitations to the pre-wedding parties.  She should be there to support you, and you shouldn’t have to manage her histrionics on top of every other wedding-related stressor.

As far as I’m concerned, if a bride friend asked me to wear clownshoes on her wedding day, I’d show up happily in clownshoes (with a red nose and rainbow wig for added good measure).

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I just think this is another case of an immature MOH/Bridesmaid. Along with my own wedding, I’m a Bridesmaid or Best Man in a friends wedding this summer. I don’t agree with everything, but I suck it up because its her day, not mine. I also know that this friend isn’t particularly happy about the Bridesmaid or Best Man dress I chose but she’s sucking it up…some people just don’t get it.

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