Post # 1
Day of the wedding went to pick up my Maid/Matron of Honor to decorate the hall( she volunteered) she decided she couldn’t help she did not come to my hair appointment she cancelled hers last minute. I had to go to my hair appointment and tell the stylist she was not showing up. During the reception she was trying to hookup with my BIL and kept asking me questions about him all night while I was trying to socialize with guests. Next day she kept going on about my BIl and saying how she hated the photographer she was being a bitch to her. All she can talk about is herself I am starting to think this friendship is over.
Word of advice pick your MOh carefully because you can be in for one hell of headache if you don’t.
Post # 3
I’m so sorry that happened to you!! I’m normally not one with high expectations of the bridesmaids, but that’s disgusting behaviour from you MOH! Hopefully you can find a way to move past it
Post # 4
@LadyElva: ditto to all of this.
Post # 5
I just went through this with my Maid/Matron of Honor. Funny thing is, she knew she should step down and the day we got together for lunch to talk about the wedding, she actually brought it up herself. We talked about it, and agreed, and it has not affected our relationship. She knew we were not that close and that she has not put a lot of effort into it. So chances are, if you are feeling this way, she probably knows it too, and perhaps wants an out. Either way, it’s YOUR big day, and this person will forever be in your pics and on your mantle so do what it is YOU want!
Post # 6
My Maid/Matron of Honor is my closest cousin. I am so sorry that happened to you. That was why I didn’t pick my sister. She makes everything about her.
Post # 7
I should have known better!