Post # 1
I am feeling so frustrated! I have tried to call, text, and email my Maid/Matron of Honor and haven’t heard from her. I had emailed her last week and she said shed call me to talk but never did. I understand shes busy but….you know it is my wedding. I am supressing my bridezilla the best I can.
Any advice for delinquent BMs or MOHs?
Post # 3
I’m sorry you have to deal with this. Whenever I tried to talk to my ex-MOH I would try to keep the conversation light, about her and never bring up the wedding unless she brought it up (which she never did btw). I didn’t want her to feel like every time we talked it had to be about me and wanted her to feel that I was into the things that were going on in her life as well.
However, my ex-MOH was the same way as yours! She would never get back to me or get together with me. She would always say we’ll get together to do xyz but never follow up with plans. She would never respond to me about the wedding and kept any responses to friendly conversation few and far between. I reached out to her so many times and tried my best not to let her know I was bothered by her lack of interest. When she first found out about the wedding she was so exctied and when I asked her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor she said how thrilled she was and couldn’t wait, but that didn’t last long. I ended up giving her a polite out expressing my concern for her (she traveled a lot with work which I used for the out) because I could tell she just wasn’t into my wedding…she took it so fast you couldn’t believe. She promised to still come to my wedding but in the end didn’t nor did she say Congrats or anything. I still try to reach out to her from time to time since she was my big sister in my sorority and I felt connected to her but again she never gets back to me.