(Closed) MOH/BM(Sister) Fighting with me and each other(long)

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
555 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

You need to tell your Maid/Matron of Honor to back off and let you deal with your sister. Your MOH’s job is to be your support system not to try and fight your honor, while her intentions are good it’s not going to help in the long run. Your sister is jealous of this girl (and of you it sounds like) so it’s not going to be taken in anyway other than negatively. As for your sister, tell her fine if she doesn’t want to come that’s her choice.  Don’t give into her drama let it be and walk away she’ll either get over it and come to the wedding or she won’t it is what it is. You can choose to let the drama in or you can choose to keep it out that’s really up to you.

Post # 4
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179 posts
Blushing bee

Cricket summed it up pretty well. Maid/Matron of Honor needs to stay out of it, this is a family issue and Maid/Matron of Honor going after your sister just makes the situation more complicated. From your story it looks like she’s just being a drama queen. Don’t play into her theatrics and tell her that it would be unfortaunte for her not to come over something as petty as this. Hopefully she’ll turn around and see how unreasonable she’s being. If she doesn’t, then you’ll probably have to look for a new Bridesmaid or Best Man.

 

Post # 5
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837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

You need to work things out with your sister.  It sounds to be like the she angry inside for whatever reason and working things out with her is what is MOST important right now.  And tell your Maid/Matron of Honor to back off because it’s none of her business.

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