- 13 years ago
Hi girls! I have one maid of honor (my cousin who I asked mostly because my mom wanted me to) and three bridesmaids. I was my cousin’s Maid/Matron of Honor when she married last year and planned a really nice shower Shes going out of the country and won’t be back until two weeks before my wedding. I brought up having a shower and she wasn’t apologetic at all about not being involved. I understand she can’t be here, but thought the least she could do was put together an e-mail to my bridesmaids and hand it over to them, or even help plan the beginning stages before she leaves.
So, is it strange if I just make the other three bridesmaids all maids of honor? Two of them even expected to be Maid/Matron of Honor in the first place, as they are my lifelong friends, and the third is very close and super helpful.
I feel like the deserve the title more than my cousin, mostly because I am closer with them, and especially now since she’s not showing any interest in helping with the shower/wedding. I know it’s not a requirement to have a shower, but thought it would be obvious since i threw hers so recently. Thanks for the advice! I’m normally very low-key but am finding myself disappointed and not feeling right about her honorable title!