(Closed) MOH/Shower Vent

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

The distance thing might be annoying, but nothing to put up a big fuss about. The mother thing is a lttle bit more of a concern imo.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Why is your mother footing the bill exactly?  I thought that everyone, except for the bride, paid for themselves.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I might be annoyed at the distance thing or if you really feel she is taking advantage of your mother, but I don’t think anything here is worth being upset about.  Remember, she (and it sounds like your mom) are the hostesses – not you.  So you can offer your suggestions if asked, but it’s up to your Maid/Matron of Honor and your mom to pick the place that works for them.

If you do feel like your mom is being taken advantage of, maybe you should talk to your mom.  Does she want to be involved?  Or does she really not care and just offered money?  I’m wondering if your friend  realized that she doesn’t have any extra money for the shower (given that she wants you to keep it small and the whole dress thing) and instead of cancelling she and your mom made a deal where she’ll do all of the planning/work and your mom will just pay.  That way you can still have a shower.

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