- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
Changed Bridesmaid or Best Man dress 4 times for Maid/Matron of Honor. Finally picked one, she went on rant basically saying she could afford the dress but wasnt going to pay ($194) when she wasnt getting anything in return. Called each other stupid. I kicked her out wedding. She told her mom I called her stupid, I didn’t say anything to mine cause the entire thing was childish. Now her mom is angry saying ridiculous things “Imma slap her, she better apologize for calling my child stupid, me and my family aint’ coming to wedding, if we do she aint getting a gift, yall put her on a pedastal” I’m 27, she’s 28. Seriously, you still run tell mama everything? Oh she lives at home with her mom.
After changing Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses 4 times for my Maid/Matron of Honor, I finally decided on one that would fit them all, it was a Bari Jay. I wanted her to be comfortable being the biggest one of the bunch. However, when she found out the price was $194 plus an upcharge for being over size 18 she promptly said she wasnt paying over $200 for a dress when I could get one similar for cheaper. Then went on to say she could just get a different dress from the Jordan line for cheaper since she was Maid/Matron of Honor and MOHs are usually in a different dress. She knew I wanted everyone in the same dress, I told her no plus Jordan’s purple isn’t deep enough. She then went on a rampage saying “you want everyone to buy all this stuff. Dress, shoes, hotel, vegas and not get anything in return. Are you going to pay for my makeup, hair, or anything?” I dont know where you other bees are from, but in all the weddings I’ve been in I’ve paid for EVERYTHING myself. The only thing the bride gave me was my wedding day jewelry. I never told anyone they HAD to come to Vegas. Everyone knows I’ve never talked or dreamed about my wedding before getting engaged, just the B-party in Vegas lol. And I’m sorry, I didn’t get the memo that I was suppose to give Maid/Matron of Honor the world on top of paying for my wedding. Then she said “you just looking at the designer, you wanted Bari Jay from the beginning.” This pissed me off, I promptly said “you so stupid. Who [email protected] dress designers. You just pick what you like.” She said “U the one dumb for staying in a hotel the night of the wedding and you live there. And for picking the same dress over and over by different people” If my other BMs wanna get a suite the night of the wedding (and they live here also by the way), cool with me. And all ya’ll know different designers purples are different shades. She told her mom I called her stupid (left out the part she called me dumb), I didn’t say anything to my mom cause the entire thing was childish. Now her mom is angry saying ridiculous things “Imma slap her, she better apologize for calling my child stupid, me and my family aint’ coming to wedding, if we do she aint getting a gift, ya’ll put her on a pedastal.” Really?! I didn’t know I was a queen lol. So here’s the deal, she is the ONLY Bridesmaid or Best Man that still lives at home with her mom (she’s 28), is spoiled (has 3 older sibling’s the closest one is 8 yrs older than her), and hasnt been in a wedding since her brother’s 10 yrs ago. She has no friends. The friends she had all stopped talking to her for some reason that’s not her fault. In hindsight I now know she was only looking at the price tags of the dresses. She kept picking the cheapest dresses regardless how they looked. One Bridesmaid or Best Man told me she even looked online at various sites for dresses that were super cheap. Also she was causing confusion for the B-party cause she kept looking for cheap hotels trying to get everyone to change things. All other BMs and family are upset with her, I mean really, you still live at home. What’s your excuse?