(Closed) Mom and dad walk me down the aisle!

posted 5 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: Would should walk me down the aisle?
    Just dad : (5 votes)
    9 %
    Just mom : (1 votes)
    2 %
    Both : (50 votes)
    89 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    516 posts
    Busy bee

    Well, it’s only breaking one kind of tradition.  There are traditions that DO include both parents walking the bride down the aisle.

    So, I think that if you and your parents all like the idea, go for it!

     

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    7561 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I personally thought it would be rude to just ask my dad. Tradition is that my father “owns me” and is the only one who can give me away. That was so not ok in my book. I wanted to honor both of my parents so they walked me together.

    By the way, make sure to tell your venue that you need a 3 person wide aisle. It’s something that nearly slipped my mind until I was at a friend’s wedding where her mother had to walk behind her Frown

    Post # 5
    Member
    1805 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    I LOVE the idea of both your parents will walk you down the aisle.. so sweet!

    Post # 6
    Member
    1024 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    totally do it!! who cares about breaking a tradition?

    Post # 7
    Hostess
    8579 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I’m having my mother & her husband walk me down the aisle.

    Post # 8
    Member
    1278 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    Im having both and my parents are recently divorced. JEwish weddings always have both. I have been told that now a days both parents is more common

    Post # 9
    Member
    700 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I had my brother lead while my mother walked me down the aisle (I have no relationship with my father). No one was upset that I broke ‘tradition’!

     

    Post # 10
    Member
    430 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - The Skinner Barn

    @mariana17:  I actually love this idea. My cousin had both of her parents walk her down the aisle and it was really beautiful. If you are close with both of your parents, then they should both have the honor of walking you down the aisle/

    Post # 11
    Hostess
    23602 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Totally sweet to have them both walk you down the aisle! 😀

    Post # 12
    Member
    4464 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I think it’s great. It’s what they actually do in my culture, and that’s what I did. Had it not already been the norm I would’ve asked my mom anyway since I am closer with her. 

    This is how we did it.

    Post # 13
    Member
    641 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I had both of my parents walk me down the aisle. I was raised Jewish (though, out of respect to my father, who is Christian, I have always celebrated all holidays – something I am thankful for), and in Judaism, it is customary to have both parents walk you down the aisle. I am not very religious; I am more spiritual than anything else, but since I do uphold most Jewish traditions I opted to incorporate this custom into my wedding. I think you should do whatever is going to make you happiest.

     

    Post # 14
    Member
    276 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Im catholic and both my parents walked me down the aisle.   

    Post # 15
    Member
    1131 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I say go for it! 😉

    Post # 16
    Member
    4046 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Just make sure the aisle is wide enough to accommodate all three of you, plus your dress.

    A friend of mine wore a big tulle princess ballgown and it did not fit, one of her grandfathers ended up walking behind her because they could not fit three across.

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