Post # 1
So ever since i can remember my mom has favored my older sister. Im a pretty strong person and have grown on my own ( moving 200 miles away for college when your 18 and staying there helps)
problem is: every girl wants her moms approval.anytime i bring up wedding stuff shes just ho hum whatever not really giving opinions. showing no interest. when i mentioned wedding dress shopping in november ( shes a teacher with a million sick?personal day stocked up) she basically said the 3 hour drive was too long and to let her know what i picked. ! I don’t think im askinig too much its my wedding.
I feel like shes not excited about my wedding at all should i just ignore her?
Post # 3
This is your mom’s loss…what about asking your sister to be part of the day?
I’m so sorry you are dealing with this….
Post # 4
problem is: every girl wants her moms approval
i think its time to tell yourself you are a woman not a girl and its your moms lost and find someone to share this with who loves and supports you
im sorry her disinterest affects you so much – hopefully you have others in your life that are move worthy of your love and affection. goodluck *hugs* i wish it was easier for you
Post # 5
@med700: I think im being forced to have her( my sister) be my Maid/Matron of Honor so she is part of the day. My sister and i dont get along too well ( she lives 200 miles away near my parents) and she is BFF with my mom. they are ok separate but together they just kinda pick at me. I have a best frind of 11 years who was my roomie all thru college we are super close and i consider her family ( i want her to be my MOH) and my 3 other brides maids are amazing friends ( one even said shed ress up like a mom and go with me lmao)
So i have some wonderful girls coming with me . it just hurts when your mom doesnt seem to care much
Post # 6
@eloping: so true thanks:) you made me smile