Mom hates my BM

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
1212 posts
Bumble bee

Seriously? You’re questioning how pretty she is and if she’s pretty enough to be a bridesmaid now? You need to A) stop talkin to your mom about this, and B) really think about if you are actually friends with these girls, because as your friend they REALLY don’t need you judging them worthy based on their looks or what part of he country they come from. That’s just absurd.

Post # 3
223 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

If you really are thinking   “well, maybe she isn’t as pretty as the other girls, maybe it would be better to un-ask her”  I think you probably should un-ask her to be your bridesmaid. She deserves better friends who don’t  judge her.

Post # 4
596 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Um, you sound ridiculous. To unask someone because their not pretty enough by YOUR standards? Yeah, that’s shallow as hell.

Actually, you should “unask” her, since your mother and your opinion is so low of her, she should know the truth. Then she can bow out herself and forget this “friendship”.


Post # 5
185 posts
Blushing bee

What has this particular BM done to cause you to question your so called “friendship” or think that she doesn’t care about you? 

Post # 6
1394 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2015 - Chapel on Base

Wow!  I would say shocked but appalled is more like it.  Pretty superficial is what you are.

Post # 7
475 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Seriously one of the lowest/meanest post I have read on the Bee….WTF “she may not be as pretty as the other girls” “wrong part of the country”. Your “friend” deserves better than the friendship she supposedly has with you…save her a headache from being in your wedding.

Post # 8
1179 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

starcatcher:  I’m confused. Have you already asked 10 friends to be bridesmaids, and are now going to ‘unask’ 4 of them so that the sides are even?

Post # 9
148 posts
Blushing bee

starcatcher:  What a callous thing to say. You should let this poor girl off the hook, that way she doesn’t have to deal with either you or your mother. 

Post # 10
805 posts
Busy bee

Wait – so you asked 10 and now want to cut 4? And you’re judging her from being from the “wrong” part of the country and not being pretty enough?! Do her a favour and cut her so she doesn’t end up spending lots of money on someone who clearly doesn’t care for her.

Post # 11
1426 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

“according to mom, those people are known for being manipulative gogetters that will use you and dump you”

I think your mom was talking about you.

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 1 month ago by  LMD.
Post # 12
1995 posts
Buzzing bee

Your mom needs to back off. These are your friends. I’d say you would know them more than her. 

Post # 13
6905 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Show her this post. Problem solved!

Post # 14
7622 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

Wow. No other words.

Post # 15
4042 posts
Honey bee

With only 11 posts, I’m sure hoping that this is a troll?

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