- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
OK, so my mom hasn’t been what I would call supportive during the planning of my wedding.We fought a lot in the beginning because she wants it one way and I want it another. We have sort of hit common ground as of lately. Except for this: She went and picked out a wedding cake for me 4 WEEKS BEFORE MY WEDDING!!!! I already have a cake, which she doesn’t like because it’s not a traditional cake. My fiance and I decided a long time ago that we are not going to be cutting the cake. It’s just something we don’t want to do. I know she figured if we had a cake we would cut it, but I really don’t want to. I also don’t think it’s right of my mom to do this so close to my wedding. I asked her what it looks like and she keeps saying don’t worry. I don’t want to argue with her so close to my wedding day, but I don’t know how to approach her and tell her that I don’t want the cake.