(Closed) Mom said this dress made my tummy look "a little paunchy"

posted 9 years ago in Dress
Post # 108
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Buzzing bee

You look beautiful. There’s no paunch. I think the difference in appearance is more about the Spanx encouraging good posture than about it “flattening” your stomach, to be honest!

Post # 109
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@lealorali:  I WISH I had your figure to wear this dress like you do. It looks great! I don’t see at all what you mom was saying. you look beautiful

Post # 110
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Oh my goodness… are you and your mom crazy-and blind?! You look 100% amazing! I wouldn’t change a thing about you or the dress!

Post # 111
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I love it! I think you look tall and slender, and as someone who is a Poster Child for Pear shaped, I would love that! 🙂 

Post # 112
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Omg when i read the title i was expecting to see a abdominal bubble.  Your flat as a board! you look amazing in it!  If your really concerned like the other girls mentioned get a pair of spanx.  Honestly I don’t think you need it though.

Post # 113
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

where’s the paunch?! you look AMAZING. seriously, you are perfect. 

Post # 114
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@lealorali:  You look beautiful and perfect. If you want to work out for your own peace of mind, then let it be because that’s what YOU want to do. I don’t see no damn spare tire. Don’t be so hard on yourself.

My mother did the same thing to me. I had anxiety while dress shopping because I knew she’d remind me of how “gordita” I am and that we all (my sister’s included) need to work out for my wedding. I don’t disagree I need to be a bit more fit but it’s not what you want to hear from your mother. It doesn’t feel like constructive criticism. I am a random stranger and would just tell you flat out. So I will tell you truthfully that you look stunning. Wear that dress with confidence and remember one thing the day your mother sees you in that veil, dress and with that smile on your face…..she’ll think you’re beautiful and pefect.  She won’t even remember her initial comments because her daughter will be beaming with happiness. 

And the best advice I have ever heard regarding self-image was from “the situation” um yes quoting Jersey Shore (please dont’ judge) but it’s SO true…”When you look good, you feel good and when you feel good, you get good results”  With that said, feel good about yourself, no one can make you feel good about yourself than YOU. So forget everyone else, ask yourself “do I look/feel beautiful?”  If you know the answer you don’t really need anyone else to reassure you. 

Sorry for the rant. Too much vino.

Post # 115
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I think you look great and don’t see any pooch/pouch/paunch! I honestly dont even see a difference with the spanx haha. If you’re still paranoid, check out the link below, it goes over an exercise that is good for the lower belly pooch that a lot of skinny girls seem to have. 

http://woldfitness.com/2011/07/one-exercise-to-end-lower-belly-pooch/

Post # 116
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Who is this dress by? There is no paunch at all. You look amazing in it!

Post # 117
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@lealorali:  Spanx is great!  You really didn’t need it in the first place, but I know you want to look/feel your best on your big day.  Beautiful!

Post # 118
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Please dont change this dress! It is stunning!

Post # 119
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

your mom is loopy. your stomach looks flat as a board!

Post # 121
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I have literally stared at your pictures for 5+ minutes looking for said ‘paunch’ but cannot find it anywhere.  I think that dress looks so good on you!!

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