(Closed) Mom thinks I’m a Bridezilla

posted 8 years ago in Family
  • poll: Does your family/a family member accuse you of being a bridezilla?
    yes : (3 votes)
    21 %
    no : (11 votes)
    79 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    413 posts
    Helper bee

    Sorry you’re having problems.  If she is the only one commenting you may be on to something.  Do you guys otherwise have a good relationship?  Maybe that’s her way of asking you that she would like to be more included?  Good luck!

    Post # 4
    Member
    284 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    That sucks. I am sorry that she is being mean to you. My family is pretty supportive. My dad was a little negative at first, but I think that was because he just bought me a new car, and feels bad that he couldn’t afford a wedding. (That was totally fine with us, we make enough money and can pay for the whole thing ourselves, although FI’s parents and my mom and stepfather are helping) I have had my freak out moments, like when the altered my dress 3-4 inches too short, and my family just tried to make things better, like talking to the shop for me so I don’t end up yelling at the shop. My mom even goes on the computer with me and looks at wedding stuff and reads the wedding bee boards.

    Post # 5
    Member
    575 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Yes!!! I am very type A as well, I am go with the flow, as long as its organized. I’m not good with suprises or spur of the moment desicions. I think I have been very easy going, but everyone has bets I will be a super Bitch when we get closer to the wedding. It is very annoying but I figure I just have to work hard to prove them wrong! I’m sorry about your mom, that is really annoying!

    Post # 6
    Member
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I got called a bridezilla for wanting to pick out one of the three flavors at our cake tasting :/. I talked to my mom about how I didn’t want to be called that for caring about something as important as my wedding, and she hasn’t used the b-word since.

    Maybe you should try just directly confronting her about it. Maybe she’s bitter or maybe she thinks you’re not including her enough or maybe it’s something else entirely. Whatever it is, it would definitely be better to have it out in the open instead of her just taking digs at you :(. *hugs*

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