(Closed) Momma drama (long)

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
193 posts
Blushing bee

@TooPunk2bPretty:  I would find another song. Dont let her dictate what you will dance too. Shes been offered to be involved in other things, she choose not too. If you are going to dance with your stepfather at all pick the song yourself. Good luck

Post # 4
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

my first thought was after all she has done to you, abandoning you and abusing you because yes, kicking your 12yr out because she thought you were flirting with her bf is abuse WHY do you want her in your life.  

it seems you have grown into the person you are despite your upbringing not because of her so dont give her so much power over your feelings.   be strong, share your life with people that want to share it and be happy for you – screw her, she had her chance and blew it

Post # 5
887 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I’ll be honest….my first thought was “awkward…” I’m sorry, it sounds like a really crappy situation. Just remember that the day is about you and your FI– it sounds like you’ve been doing an awesome job cutting out the negativity. I think that you have every right to say “no.”

As a side note, at our wedding, my Mother-In-Law (who really hated me at the time) chose “The Dance” by Garth Brooks for her mother-son dance…some of the very depressing lyrics “Looking back on the memory of/ The dance we shared beneath the stars above/ For a moment all the world was right/ How could I have known you’d ever say goodby/e And now I’m glad I didn’t know/ The way it all would end the way it all would go/Our lives are better left to chance I could have missed the pain…” etc. It was sooo embarassing for me and Darling Husband. We laugh about it now though 🙂

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