(Closed) Mom’s getting ridiculous

posted 8 years ago in 20 Something
Post # 3
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1871 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Well, you can do just that–talk to her gently and tell her that it’s hurtful when you feel like she’s not enthusiastic about your day.

However, do remember that your mom has a life complete with its own social circle and there appear to be some sort of social pressures that she is responding too–a certain way that people are expecting she behave. I’m not saying that makes her behavior okay, but just so you don’t take it personally–it may not have anything to do with you.

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I also think you should talk to your mom. Maybe she is scared to give you away or feels that because you love your fiance so much , you love her less. I think you should talk about how you feel about your fiance… why it is you love him and why it is that you cannot wait to marry him. You should also thank your mom for always being there for you etc. and make sure that she knows that even though you’re forming your own family, you will still love her and will always be her daughter.  Good luck, I hope it goes well. 🙂 

Best wishes,

 

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