(Closed) MOMS – tell me how you…

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

Aw!  What a big girl!  Our daycare doesn’t allow binks in the pretoddler classroom, but they are breaking in our class because almost all of the kids still need them to fall asleep for naps.  It’s not so bad though because she was only ever allowed to have it for naps, and not just whenever.

We haven’t quite figured out how to take it away yet.  But I saw something cute on Supernanny where the kids put all of their pacifiers into an envelope and “mailed” them to kids without any.  It was a way for them to voluntarily give them up and feel good about where it went.  If Dirty Delete is still using it at an age where she can understand that, we might use that technique.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

i did it in stages. at a year, i started letting my son have them when he woke up, took a nap and went to bed. then every once in awhile he couldn’t have it at nap time. then i just stopped giving it to him at nap time all together. then i started doing the same thing at bedtime. by one and a half, he didn’t even think about his binky anymore.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper

πŸ™‚  I totally get it!

My Dirty Delete is 15 months.  The daycare restricts when they can have the binks because they don’t want one kid to drop one and another kid to pick it up and suck on it.  It’s a sanitation issue.  If you are using a home daycare I’m sure they don’t care, but ours is a govt daycare, so they are very strict on the rules.

That is a GREAT idea about making it not work anymore!  My cat has on several occasions bit the ends and rendered them useless.  You can just poke a hole in the end and it does the same thing.  Might be an easier transition for the LO.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

You may want to ask the daycare about them At the daycare I work at we allow parents to send them for our toddlers but ask that they stay in their bag where the child doesn’t know they exist. We tell parents we’ll give it to the child if the child asks for it or severely needs it but that never happens. Usually if children don’t know its at school they don’t worry about it because they don’t associate pacifiers with school. Personally I would let her get through some naptimes at school without it and then start phasing it out at home.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

We can’t get our little girl to take one. If there’s no food coming out of it, she doesn’t want to suck on it!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@Miss Marbles: Honestly no it doesn’t bother me at all when they have a hard time going down. I have several children that we have to sit with and rub their backs etc to put them to sleep. Thats our job. Giving her the binky at daycare and then taking it away at daycare will just make it harder on the teachers in my opinion. I’d rather see a child fuss for a day or two while they transition to the new environment than deal with them screaming for a binky for a few weeks after its taken away. If she doesn’t know that she gets the binky at school she’ll never ask for it and most likely go to bed just the same without it while at school. In my class this year I have two that are used to sleeping with binkys and two that are used to going to bed with a bottle. None of them get the binky or bottle at school and I haven’t had a single naptime issue in relation to that. Good Luck!

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am not a mom yet, however, When I was younger my mom and dad broke me of both my bottle and pacifier by cutting the tip off. To me, it was “broken” and I didn’t want it anymore. I was easy. My sisters were mad that it was broken but quickly got over it. Since then, I had suggested it to some of my parents with younger ones (when I was a pre-k teacher) and it has worked on all but 1… who ended up preferring it that way. It is definately worth a try!

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

My son is 20 months and I can’t for the life of me get him to give it up. He knows the word for it, so he can fully let me know when he wants it. He only uses it when he sleeps, but he has grown so attached that he sleeps with one in his mouth and one in each hand! He won’t sleep otherwise. I also let him have it in the car or else he just cries the whole trip. I have been looking into the mailing option, but I don’t think he will be able to comprehend that yet. He is so good going to sleep when he has it that I don’t want to disturb that!!! *sigh* maybe another day :/

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