(Closed) Monday wedding?

posted 5 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Shannabee:  Personally I probably wouldn’t go to a Monday wedding unless it was like my best friend or sister. Or if it was a destination wedding that I would have to take a week off from work anyway.

No one is going to drive 3 hours after the reception, so they would have to take off at least monday and tuesday… Don’t you think a thursday/friday would be more fun and easier to take off from work?

Post # 4
4014 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I wouldn’t mind, but only because my days off are Tuesday and Wednesday so I would just take off Monday. BUT, I would probably only do so if you were a close friend or family member. My situation is a bit unique for my job so I would probably be on your Fiance side on this one. You will more than likely have many people RSVP no, you just have to be ok with that! If not, keep looking for your venue!

Post # 5
1541 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I’m doing a Monday! but it’s a Destination Wedding. We’re not saving any money though, I’m jealous!

Post # 6
8695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Shannabee:  I did a Monday but it was a major holiday. I did have a higher decline rate (about 30%) but we didnt care. My Darling Husband is in the military and that was the only date our venue had left in the timeframe we knew for sure he would be able to come home and go on a honeymoon.

Post # 7
2894 posts
Sugar bee

I’m not sure this will be a success if a large part of your family has to drive for 3 hours a Monday, then have to go back working the morning after or Wednesday. I probably would not go unless it was my sister or best friend.

Post # 8
79 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

What about doing an earlier time, like noon ceremony and 1 or 2 pm for the reception so that your guests can drive home after the reception and not get home at a ridiculously late time. 

Post # 9
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Shannabee:  id be more inclined to go to a Thursday wedding than a Monday one.

Post # 10
8472 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

It’s ONE day. Your guests should be able to sacrifice one day. I would for someone close to me. 

Post # 11
8396 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would have to be extremely close to the person to take 2 days off of work for their wedding.

Post # 12
662 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@Westwood:  +1

We’re doing a Sunday so that we can stretch our budget for our dream venue, but 60% of the guests live within a 25 minute drive of the venue….

Post # 13
3283 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I am getting married on a Monday, but we are having an intimate wedding of about 17 guests. Of those people, I think only 4 or 5 have to take the day off work specially for the wedding–everyone else is either retired or already traveling 1000+ miles for the wedding and taking time off anyway.

I think generally on the bee, people say that they wouldn’t take two days off of work unless they’re really close to you, like sister or BFF. You should probably decide which is most important to you: the day or having more of your guest list come.

Post # 14
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Yeah I personally wouldn’t attend a Monday Wedding that was three days aways. When I’m working that is a busy and important day at my office, so it’s not something I would be able to do easily. Can you find a three day weekend to host the wedding on?

The only time I attended a wedding on an odd day like that is if it’s a destinaton wedding where I’m talking multiple days off.

Post # 15
3720 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Shannabee:  A Monday night wedding means two days of work off. If you have a lot of 9-5ers, that won’t work (we would only take 2 days off of work if you were super close to us). If you have a lot of teachers, medical staff, and people not working traditional hours and it is a summer wedding, it could work really well.


If you do have it on a Monday, could you do an 11am ceremony and lunch reception? That way people could get back. We were just at a morning wedding and it was great. Another option is a late night Thursday wedding (ceremony at 6, reception at 7). We could just take a few hours off and make that. 

One slightly strange idea– are all of your guests from the same region 3 hours away? Could you do a bus? We were at a wedding that did that (it picked us up from a supermarket in our town and drove us to the wedding, then returned us afterwards) and it was nice having the bulk of the driving done by someone else.

It all depends on what is the most important thing to you. The best weddings I have been to were the guest-centered ones. They might not have been in the most ideal locations, but they had great food, drink, and entertainment and were super convenient.


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