(Closed) Money-Hungry Bride!

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
Member
994 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

what a cow. If you’re willing to lose the friendship drop out of the wedding, i’m guesing soon it will be “i need a destination bachelorette” and “oh we need our nails done at thissalon” and “btw last inute decoration expenses”

 

Post # 3
Member
697 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’ve never understand the engagement gift, shower gift and wedding gift. Where I’m from, it’s a one and done. You either bring one to the shower or bring it to the wedding.

Post # 4
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3199 posts
Sugar bee

Honestly, do you think you’ll ever be able to be really close with her again…especially if she continues to get worse? I would rather be gentle, but firm and honest with her in the hopes of getting through to her, and risk losing her friendship than just let her keep pushing and thinking treating people that was is acceptable by standing by.

Post # 5
Member
816 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I’m not sure why you agreed to be in this wedding in the first place; clearly you were aware of her behavior before she was even engaged! Drop out and ditch the friendship. She sounds annoying and you sound like you’ve run out of patience (I don’t blame you!) so spend your precious time with people that make you happy.

Post # 6
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9528 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Nope. Bye Felicia

that is so sad. Hopefully she will grow up at some point and realize that people who care about her are far more important than silly expensive gifts

Post # 7
Member
840 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

You should do her a favor and let her know how unbecoming her disgusting attitude is. I guess momma didnt teach her better.

Post # 8
Member
329 posts
Helper bee

I’m confused as to why she would put “cheap” items on her registry if all she wants is people to buy her expensive things. 

Post # 9
Member
12 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

What a Materialistic Mary! I’d wouldn’t get her anything else, she obviously only values friendship by the money you’re prepared to lay out. That’s a deal breaker. 

Post # 10
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1306 posts
Bumble bee

 

How can you stand to be friends with her? If this is at all possible, i would sit down with her and lay it out for her…tell her how greedy she is coming across and how you want her to remember the big picture and the important things in life.

In all honestly though…if she was like this before the wedding, then I highly doubt she’ll change her tune. So I guess you can either suck it up and get through the wedding or drop out and lose the “friendship”.

Post # 11
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435 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

I would proprobably just ignore her. Don’t give he anything else. Go through the motions. To do the minumum I have too. No use getting upset. Nothing it required. Not gifts. You may hve to spend the money on the wedding stuff. Like hair and the dress but thats it. Everything else is volantary. Her being a bitch would make me not want to do anything for her. 

Post # 12
Member
13590 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’d spend what I could afford, and nothing more. If she said anything else, I’d make some snide comment that “we can’t all be as well-off as you” and see if she’d take the hint. 

Post # 13
Member
2872 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Oy, I would of said no to being in that wedding. I hope karma bites her on her expensive butt.

Post # 14
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1945 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Horrible…I would start making her home made gifts. 

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