(Closed) Money woes…

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

That sucks.  I wouldn’t discuss money with her from now on. 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@EleanorRigby:  +1

I got an uncomfortable comment like this from my mom about my FI’s parents (who are super old and on a fixed income and who were impacted by Katrina!!) and I was very firm and just said that we would handle it. That seemed to do the trick for me, but I feel for you.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Just change the money subject any time it comes up.  If she’s not paying for it, she has no need to know what it costs.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Woodstock:  Don’t discuss $$ with her. I could be wrong, but I was under the impression that it was traditional for the bride’s family to pay for the wedding (which I assume includes the rehearsal dinner)… so you could just tell her that lol. Or maybe not since she is paying for the reception. Just weird.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

My mom does the same thing… I just say Father-In-Law didn’t contribute to their own daughter’s wedding so I am not expecting it for ours.

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