- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
I know, I know, I’m sick of me posting on this board, too.
I just found out yesterday that one of my MoHs just planned a spontaneous trip out of town for 3 days with some of her other friends. I wouldn’t be mad, except that I have been repeatedly, pathetically, BEGGING her, and the other 2 girls who have yet to pay, to pay me back for their bridesmaids’ dresses in whatever increments they can. They fully understood and promised they would pay me back when they could, and the last time I asked her (last week), she said she was broke until the end of the month and would pay me back in May. So… she can’t give me $50 towards her dress, but can spend $200 on a trip? Hmmm…
I am not really jumping to conclusions (maybe someone else is paying her way, or she’s borrowing from someone else?) but I’m frustrated, to say the least. My fiancé and I are struggling just to find money for groceries. Watching my BMs go on lavish trips and go out for exepnsive bar nights kind of stings when I’m not sure how I’m going to get my next bag of dog food. I can’t think of a way to bring it up without seeming nosy/petty. Should I just ignore it and move on with my life? What would you do? =/