(Closed) More floral updates: FI's true feelings & me confused and stressed :/

posted 5 years ago in Flowers
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

If he’s anything like my Fiance, he waits until the last possible second to say something. He likes to avoid conflict.

 

I’m so sorry. I would be hot. But since he told you how he feels is there a way to compromise? Can you sell them? Can they be used for something else?

 

 

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@MissFireFlower:  *HUGS*  I think you did a beautiful job on all of your projects and I’m sorry your Fiance feels that way.  Maybe try talking to him and see if you can come to a compromise.  I agree 1 month is way too short of notice to bring something like this up.

Post # 5
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1830 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Just use your bouquets that you made, put the bouts to the side unused and let him have just the pocket squares.

After the wedding re-sell the bouquets and bouts on ebay, craigslist or weddingbee.

I sold my silk bridal party bouquet and bouts after my wedding on ebay for $100 plus the buyer paid for shipping.

Post # 6
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338 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

It’s your wedding too, so I think there needs to be a compromise. Let him have the pocket squares and you keep the bouquet, maybe? You genuinely like your bouquet so I think it’d be wrong for you to not use it. 

Post # 7
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Busy bee

You’ve done so much work . . . Tell your Fiance that if he’s prepared to pay for, organize, and arrange fresh flowers at this point, he can be your guest.

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