(Closed) More In-law drama!!!! D:

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@amoret11:  EESH, I wouldn’t want to help her either… and as far as I’m concerned if you’re married it isn’t JUST his money anymore… but that’s just me

Post # 4
2417 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I agree with PP. If you guys are married, it isn’t just his money anymore.

Post # 5
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I don’t think she deserves it sounds like they been putting with her bullshit for years.

While your Fi shouldn’t get to make unilateral choices about money and how you guys spend it, if it’s small amounts and not a huge loan I say let it go. You give your opinion, and if it becomes a bigger issue then you put your foot down. But it’s up to your DH to deal with this.

Even though she is a mess and it sounds like everyone knows it, don’t be surprised if htey turn on you and become protective if you are too vocal about it. It sucks! Hopefully they don’t let her get away with this bad behavior any longer

Post # 6
986 posts
Busy bee

If you’re married, I would say you have a place in this decision. And as already mentioned, I think it would depend on the amount. 

Post # 8
899 posts
Busy bee

My best advice to you is to turn the other cheek and let her be the way she is. Don’t bother yourself with it unless it seriously infringes upon your own family. Some people are just like that. Just ignore it and ignore the headache!

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