(Closed) More Maids than Men?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1888 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@AmandaJK:  I had 6 bridesmaids and my husband had 4 groomsmen. Just the girls processed with mefor the entrance. As for pictures, 3 of my brothers were ushers, so we then had 6 maids and 7 men. It was fine!

Post # 5
1718 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

Do what makes you happy! I had 4 bms, husband had 4 gms. I picked mine for “symmetry’s sake” and left out 3 best friends. Totally regret it. If I could have done it all over again, I’d have had 7, my husband would still have had 4. Relationships are what’s important! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
1564 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I had 4 Bridesmaid or Best Man and 2 Jr Bridesmaid or Best Man and there were 3 groomsmen and it was just fine and this is something I stressed big time over lol 


Post # 9
2453 posts
Buzzing bee

@AmandaJK:  this is something i often think about too. SO only has 2 close friends that he has had since his childhood. He has guys he is “cool” with but not long-time friends. He also has 2 nephews im sure he would use. I, on the other hand, have a few very dear friends I would love to include AND my cousins who i’m very close with.


I know my number will be bigger than his and I have always wondered what i would do! But the photo above looks wonderful even with an odd number. I thought maybe I could just have double the bridesmaids and groosmen can have a girl on each arm for pictures!


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