(Closed) More of the same…

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
257 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Uh! I feel for you… I know the feeling that one really, really, really wants that committment, that security that an engagement is supposidly going to give a relationship. Even though one should be acutally feeling great as the relationship is already a good and stable one.

I can see why your boyfriend wants to wait on it though but I totally understand why it still upsets you. The key is to think that you love him, he loves you and him saying something along the lines of wanting “things to move on” is definately a really good sign that he wants to marry you eventually.

Keep your head up! Smile

Post # 4
4524 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@lsimpson:  It’s totally, 100% ok to need to vent: that’s what this board is pretty much here for :-p

It sounds like you’re being very rationale about the whole thing: you understand he has goals he wants to accomplish first and understand why he has them. I don’t think you’re being a child at all, quite the opposite in fact. 

A year and half may seem very far away, but as you said he is only 25. It sounds like he’s a sweet guy and you guys are on that path. Hang in there 🙂

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