(Closed) More RSVP ranting

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

Is this a friend or family member?

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

You should give a few days for more to pour in before contacting people. Mail service is dependent on the area you live in… ours is often slower than other people’s from what I have been told by friends.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@missjuli:  it’s better than “I thought by neglecting to respond you’d take the hint that I don’t want to go to your wedding”. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Ah I’m sorry – that really stinks! I’m dreading this.

Post # 7
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753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I had one of my fiance’s aunts write a facebook comment on a status asking if we wanted the rsvp back even though we knew they were coming. 

YES! 

she works for the post office too.

Post # 10
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6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

@missjuli:  At that point, if it were me, I’d ask her about it. Just send a message asking if everything was ok, and that the rsvp seemed a bit unexpected (and curt!) in light of the fact that they’d previously expressed interest in going.

If it’s awkward, you don’t have to ever see them again, and if it IS awkward, chances are you wouldn’t want to anyway. Maybe it’s just something like they have a work thing that weekend or whatever.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@missjuli:  tell me about. My Fi side has not replied. I asked his step mom about it and she said.’ oh they prob think they dont have to rsvp’. WTH, um yes, why wouldn’t you!? End rant. Good luck :).

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I remember being hurt by the just “no” responses.  Not so much because they weren’t coming but they didn’t take the time to say congratulations or anything.  These things happen.  It probably won’t be the last.

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