(Closed) More sex before or after cohabitation?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: When did you have more sex?
    Before we moved in together : (105 votes)
    61 %
    After we moved in together : (32 votes)
    19 %
    It didn't change : (30 votes)
    18 %
    Other : (4 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    For us, we defintely had more sex right after we moved in to our new place because of….ahem….christening various locations seemed absolutely necessary 🙂  But now we’ve settled into a routine because we’re together evrey night we sometimes go several nights without having sex…when we didn’t live together, we spent maybe 2-3 nights of the week together and would usually have sex every night we slept over.  Overall I’d say that number hasn’t changed.

    Post # 4
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    5655 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I had to say other b/c at a point of our dating relationship “engagement” we took a vow of purity and we didn’t live together before getting married so although it’s been more since moving in together it’s really only b/c the Big Day has come and gone… =)

    Post # 5
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    3257 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Definitely after. I guess it’s more convenient now? lol

    Post # 6
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    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Definitely after. We went from 2 times a week or so to 7.

    Post # 8
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    1830 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    That’s a bit of tricky one to answer!   We were long distance for a significant portion of our relationship, only able to see each other every 3 months or so.  When we were together, it was definitely a daily affair, sometimes multiple times per day.   Now that we’re finally in the same country, living together at last, we’re more like 3 – 4 days per week. 

    Post # 9
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    1835 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Before we lived together we saw each other every other day. We had sex every time we hung out. Since we’ve lived together (almost 2 years now) it’s about once every two weeks. 

    I hated typing every single word of that last sentence 🙁

    Post # 11
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    1835 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    @Dsquared: *nods head* We’re trying to get better! lol

    Post # 13
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    10714 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Before we lived together he came down every Thursday to Monday before school… We had sex at least once while he was here… now were on again off again… we can be in the mood 3 days in a row or not for 3 weeks. Neither of us care much but it’s definitely decreased since living together.

    Post # 14
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    5655 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    While doing our premarital couseling we heard about an “un-written” rule for this particular couple to have SOME kind of sexual intimacy atleast every 4 days. Even is one isn’t totally in the mood (generally her) or lifes just REALLY busy (they’re both highly involved in Ministry).. every 4 days there’s gonna be some action. lol

    Post # 15
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    862 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    definitely after we moved in together…

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