(Closed) More than a little angry and I’m not sure how I should be feeling

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@jackndiane: But I feel like he is just too busy with his stupid videogames to go to the jeweler.

If this truly is the reason, I would be angry and hurt too. 🙁

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Let’s hope he is just pulling your leg and trying to surprise you.  Sounds like the perfect set up, in which case he wants you to think he’s being lazy and will not have the ring in time. Please be the case!!!

Fingers crossed for you!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

I’d be like ‘fine then, yup you messed up, so a stand-in CZ will do me just fine in the meantime. I’m a size seven. Thanks hun!” kiss cheek and walk away

Post # 9
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3142 posts
Sugar bee

“don’t bother going to the jeweler this week we obviously both need some time to figure out what we want. Maybe there is a reason you are putting this off that you aren’t in touch with.”

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Um and what did he say to that?

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@jackndiane: You are right. A man should be just as excited to get engaged as we are.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@jackndiane: How will you feel if, once you are engaged, he doesn’t seem to want to wedding plan or gets overwhelmed by it all? (There are some guys that get into it, but most probably don’t.) I know I was really hurt when my fiance told me he was on wedding overload. I completely understand why that was the case and I’m not angy. But it was like a knife to the stomach and I’m still working on getting excited for the wedding again. 

I guess what I’m saying is that if this is a problem now, I’d work on it now. It may only get worse as there are so many things that both of you need to work on together: wedding, homes, children, etc. This is something I didn’t think about at all during the pre-engagement period. I kind of wish I had.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would feel hurt too. I am glad you stuck up for yourself though.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I’ve felt the same way, girl. I’ve been waiting a VERY long time for my guy to propose. he made me so upset the other day. He took me ring shopping and everything, I picked out a ring and was sooo excited because we had a special date night planned…and he flat out said he wasn’t going to do it soon cause i’d be expecting it… which is lame in my opinion. Instead of dropping money on the ring, he bought himself a new toy. He’s been hanging around the house everyday since then, so I know he hasn’t been to the jewler. It’s frustrating and you’re not alone! ::hugs::

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

@jackndiane:  “don’t bother going to the jeweler this week. We obviously both need some time to figure out what we want.”

I think HE needs time to figure out what he wants.

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