(Closed) MORE than Nervous about my groom's bachelor party!

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
1430 posts
Bumble bee

Wow sucks to have such crappy guys close to your fiance. It sounds like they are going to do whatever they want despite you and your fiancee’s wishes so you just need to hold on to the fact that you trust your fiance to always do the right thing even when he is intoxicated. Would hate to be put in that position..

Post # 4
4192 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Maybe your Dad should go on the bachelor party. Ha! That would show ’em!

Post # 5
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@rebwana:  I trust my Darling Husband more then I trust my dad lol 


Post # 6
3254 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@GoldenBeauty2202012:  I hate to be blunt, but your fiance is a grown man and should be able to handle himself. If he knows he’s going to be in such a toxic environment, then he needs to control himself and not get totally wasted. My SO had a group of groomsmen who are pretty irresponsible, wild boys who think they’re still 18, so he didn’t get very drunk at his bachelor’s party because he knew they would be out of control. Is that the way it should be? No, but your SO can’t change them and instead needs towatch out for himself. This isn’t an issue you should be stressing over if you really trust your SO to be able to handle his life.

Post # 7
4192 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

@Mrs.Jansen:  I hear ya- my Dad would be all excited- “Yeah, boobies!” :)-

OP: Would there be someone at the party who has similar values as FI? That could help- if they try to put him in an uncomfortable position, he’d have someone he could leave with.

Post # 9
227 posts
Helper bee

I agree with @brideatbeach. I totally understand your concerns, but I’d try to take a deep breath and not stress it. The only person who can make your fiance do something that breaks your trust is HIM. He is old enough to choose his friends, and if these people matter to him, there is a reason for that. 

My cousin was in a similar situation. There ended up being strippers at her husband’s bach party, she freaked out, and it was a huge fight. It wasn’t his decision, and honestly it does not really impact anything. They have an amazing marriage now 8 years in. I’d try to just focus on the fact that you trust your fiance and tell him to have fun. He can handle himself. 

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