- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
I need all honest opinions please! I don’t know what to do!
Back story: bridsmaid, lets call her A (part of bridal ‘team’ in efforts not to pick a MOH) who thinks she should be Maid/Matron of Honor plans flight into airport 3.5 hours outside of my town, where a groomsman lives – plans to drive into town/travel with him (could get a flight to my town but more expensive). A plans to arrive into far away town with groomsman (M) wednesday – he works thursday so can’t drive in until that night (keep in mind they DO NOT KNOW EACH OTHER – only communication is via facebook).
PROBLEM: My bridal shower is thursday night! She wont take a bus …. “I’m not riding a bus” and said “we will get there when we can” …. she doesn’t know this guy and is missing my bridal shower to drive in with him????? Wants to leave early sunday (bridal brunch after the wedding) to go to an event with M, he doesn’t even want to go and has told Fiance as much. He is too nice to tell A.
Thoughts???? What do I say to A? I haven’t responded to her since “we will get there when we can”. Also the ‘we’ really bothers me. We who????? you don’t know the guy!
sorry, rant. please give advice!