(Closed) More wedding date drama – what would you do?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 1997

@Miss Mochaccino:  If you are truly planning a small simple wedding then choose the date you want. It really is special to celebrate your anniversary on a date that is not ordinary. But if your wedding is not something that is going to be fairly easy to set up then think about a JOP or elopement for the date and push the party down the road a few months.

Post # 4
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1008 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Two things..

my hubby and I just picked a random date but now it is special cause it was our wedding… and we still get to celebtrate every other special day we have.

As for planning…. if it is small enough, I would just do it. I found planning a wedding VERY stressful and I sometimes wished I had less time, so I would be stressed for that short period and be done with it.

Post # 5
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206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Since you’re planning a small wedding, I would go with a date that was special. After planning a big wedding, I really realized that its not the details that are important. You get to really get the feeling that its about you and your SO getting married in the presence of friends and family. You’re celebrating your love for one another. (Yes, it might sound cheesy, but it took a while for that to really sink in to me) People can tell you that all they want but you may not understand it fully until you experience the realization yourself. 

My advice, don’t sweat the small stuff. Also….. delegate. Say it with me… DE-LE-GATE!

All the best! And good luck with which ever you choose.

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